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“I thought it impossible when I heard that karate would teach my child discipline, confidence, and self esteem…… But, now - he’s a “Straight A Student,” Confident, and, Respectful!”
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Dear Parent,

I don’t blame you. You’re thinking, “come on …how can karate and the martial arts teach wholesome values - and, success skills?” Well, I’m here to tell you, in more ways than you can begin to imagine.
My name is Dr. Gary Wong. I’m the owner of one of the most successful martial art programs in the Bay Area. My school is Wong’s Ji Do Kwan in Fremont, California.
For the past 25 years , I’ve been nurturing children like yours with character building tools found only in the martial arts. No other sport can even come close. In the next few pages, I’m going to tell you how you and your child can sample all of this, and more. FREE OF CHARGE!!

Watch as your child increases in confidence, self esteem and learns to be empowered to be the best person he or she can become. You can’t believe how your child will thirst and search for a greater knowledge and watch as they achieve.....

Greater academic achievement.
Greater self respect and self discipline.
Increased strength in the mind, body and spirit.


And all of it comes while learning how to “block, punch and kick,.”

The greatest gift you can give your child is to have the tools to deal with their own doubts and fears.
Look at it this way. Your child’s first and biggest challenge comes not from “fighting for their rights on the street,” or “beating up the neighborhood bully.” It comes, instead, from battling the internal struggle.
Your child’s own doubts and fears:

• “I’m not as athletic as Joe”
• “I’m not as smart as Amy”
• “I don’t understand what my teacher is saying.”
• “I wish I was as [strong, pretty, tall] as Patty.”
• “Why does Ronnie keep giving me a bad time?”
• “Why can’t I be as popular as Kim?”


The question is, how do you get your child to fight these demons? You know the problem. Your child has a tough time even telling you he or she’s haunted by them. Never mind how they might conquer them.
Well, the great news is, I have a proven solution. A program that has already worked for many children. A series of lessons your child can learn easier than you think.

I call it, “Breaking Out.” Let me tell you it’s secret:

To repeat, The Martial Arts are less about your child learning to fight others, and more about fighting…himself or herself. Whatever their innermost fears are....... Conquer them, and your child unleashes within themself a powerful, unstoppable force.

A force that gives them the strength to kick down the doors of their own self doubts, A force that opens your child to the exalting power of values.


In other words, when your child uses the discipline of Karate to conquer their own fears, they have the power to transfer that discipline to all other areas of their life. I know of no other sport that does this better than Karate. (I should know. Remember, I’ve been teaching it for 25 years.)
Now, you may be asking, how does all this “values” stuff work? And why does Karate manage to do a better job teaching it?

Again, more than any other sport, Karate gives your child the chance to explore their own innate powers. They’ll marvel (as you will) as they increase in strength, flexibility, endurance, balance, and harmony. Yet this is only the beginning.

The development of physical skill act as a foundation for something much more important: the development of their value skills, mental and spiritual. This encompasses a strong union of the mind, body and sprit.

Like this:

COURAGE:
Your child finds the courage to move outside of their comfort zone. They take on more difficult Karate moves and skills. They are no longer afraid of being afraid.

They will learn that maximum effort in equals great pride in one’s self out. They learn to blame no one, but take on their own responsibility for their actions. They begin to see their life as a constant, never-ending journey of life-giving improvement.

In short, your child will begin to control their own destiny.

STAYING POWER:
Your child finds joy in improving their physical stamina. They can walk farther, run longer, practice skills until they get them right.

In turn, they learn not to give up. They see things through. With the help of our teachers, your child strives harder and longer to reach their goals. Even if they fail they learn to persevere. Your child won’t let self doubt get in the way of finding ultimate solutions.

As a man once said, “Where performance is measured, performance improves.” Yet, your child has to first accept where they stand now. That means measuring current strengths. Above all, they learn that to succeed, they can’t fool anyone, especially themself.

This results in a keener focus. They learn to make eye contact with their teacher (and not just in Karate.) They pay greater attention to what each teacher says. They know and accept where they stand.

These are just three of the powerful, energizing values your child will get from the “Breaking Out” program. In short, you can look forward to your child developing:

• Powerful Self Control: Your child will refuse to give in to negative peer pressure. They’ll have deeper respect for rules.

• Improved Focus: Your child will learn what’s needed, along with the skill to “zero in” on critical tasks at hand. Normal, yet time-wasting, childhood distractions won’t get in the way.

• Fearless Self Confidence: Watch as your child finds the courage to open any door life has to offer.

TOWERING ROLE-MODEL INSTRUCTORS:
As you might guess, all of this couldn’t have happened unless I had the very best teachers. To make sure I have the very best, each of them have years of experience in my system and have been thoroughly trained in teaching skills. Today, they are all martial arts experts - advanced Black Belts, in fact. Many have won awards for their teaching and physical skills. Still, you’re wondering if this will work for your child. I understand.

So let me tell you an old martial arts story that illustrates our perspective on conflict...

It was a typical day unlike any other day in urban America. The bus was comparatively empty except for a few housewives with their kids in tow, some old folks going shopping. I watched as we drove by the buildings as they just seemed to blend in with the surroundings.

At one stop the doors opened and in an instant the quiet ordinary day was transformed by a loud belligerent man yelling and cursing. This man was disheveled and obviously drunk and began ranting and screaming. He was loud and obnoxious and began to push people out the way. He pushed a woman that was carrying groceries and knocked her down to the floor. Luckily she was unharmed. Some people helped her to her feet and then hastily moved to the other side of the bus away from this crazed man. This upset the man even more and he began to kick and swing punches at the people who were trying to move to safety. This man was standing in the middle of the bus and everyone was in fear and cowered and would not look him in the eye. He began to yell out even more trying to evoke a fight.

I stood up. I was young and tough and had several years of martial training behind me. I felt that the people on this bus are in danger and if I didn’t do something about this somebody would get hurt. I was going to teach this guy a lesson. As I stood, the drunken man was yelling that he was going to teach me a lesson. I readied myself and the drunken man began to plan a run at me.

Just then another voice spoke up. It was as if time had stopped and everyone was frozen in their tracks unable to move and the only thing that any of us could do was to listen. The drunken man and I had turned to see an older man sitting there calm and relaxed. He looked right at the drunken man and with a slight gesture of his hand and a nod of his head he asked the drunken man to come and talk.

The drunken man walked toward the old man sitting there and stopped at his feet. He bellowed out "Why the hell should I talk to you?" The old man looked into the man’s eyes, smiled and asked “What have you been drinking?” "Wine, that’s what I’ve been drinking" the laborer bellowed back, "and it’s none of your business!"

"How delightful," the old man said, “You see, I love wine too.” Every night my wife and I take it out into the garden, and we sit on an old wooden bench. We watch the sun go down, and we look to see how our apple tree is doing. My great-grandfather planted that tree, and we worry about whether it will recover from the draught we had the last few years. Our tree has done better than I expected, though, especially when you consider the poor quality of the soil. It is so gratifying to watch when we take our wine and go out to enjoy the evening even when it rains!"

There was a calmness in the old man’s voice that just seemed to soothe the spirit of this once enraged man. As he followed the old man’s conversation, the drunk’s face began to soften. His fists slowly unclenched.

"I love apples too...." as his voice trembled. "Yes," said the old man, smiling, "and I’m sure you have a wonderful wife." "No," replied the man. "My wife died." As his head dropped down. The big man began to sob. "My wife is gone, I don’t have a home and I got no job. I’m so embarrassed of myself." Tears rolled down his cheeks; a spasm of despair rippled through his body.

I stood there dumbfounded, I wanted to beat this drunken man down for something that I didn’t understand. I felt ashamed of myself and felt worse than what this man was going through.

As the bus arrived at my stop and the doors opened, I heard the old man say "That is a difficult predicament, indeed. Sit down here and tell me about it."

I turned my head for one last look. The disheveled man was sprawled on the seat, his head in the old man’s lap. The old man was softly stroking the filthy, matted hair.

As the bus pulled away, I sat down on a bench. What I had wanted to do with muscle had been accomplished with kind words. I had just witnessed true martial arts in combat, and the essence of it was inner peace. I would have to practice the art from an entirely new perspective. It would be a long time before I could resolve conflict in this manner.

A great martial artist once said:
Know the enemy and know yourself; in a hundred battles you will never be in peril. When you are ignorant of the enemy but know yourself, your chances of winning and losing are equal. If ignorant both of your enemy and of yourself, you are certain in every battle to be in peril. For to win a hundred victories in one hundred battles is not the highest skill. To subdue the enemy without fighting is the highest skill.

This is the true meaning of the martial arts.

So what’s this have to do with your child?
Ask Yourself, “What did the old man have that the young man didn’t?” The old man had confidence in himself. He’s at peace with who he is. He knew to learn more about the drunken man so to develop a strategy to control the situation. There was no need to resort to violence. He subdued the enemy without even fighting. That is the highest skill.

Now, I still know what you’re thinking: How can I know for sure the “Breaking Out” program will work for my child? Will learning to ‘block, punch and kick’ really work ? I’ve made it very easy for you to find out - for your child……….

FREE LESSONS ($120.00 value.) I’m offering you two 15 minute private lessons, and two weeks - for FREE at Wong’s Ji Do Kwan (with no strings attached.) See for yourself if, in fact, I can give your child the powerful benefits promised in this letter. During these lessons your child will have an opportunity to build a closer relationship with the instructor and we will have an opportunity to answer any and all questions that you may have about our program.

FREE Student-Parent Conference Before or during the introductory program we will meet one on one to discuss your child’s needs and your child’s progress. We will educate you regarding our program and help you understand the developmental process for your child. We will give you tips on how to reinforce your child’s development and share with you

And, only if you register today – on-line, can I guarantee that you’ll also receive:


Class one at Wong’s Ji Do Kwan. Your child begins by learning the profound influence of the martial arts “bow.” Then watch as your child:

• Warms to the idea of emotional respect, for both himself and others.

• Gains power from the ability to be confident yet respectful.”

• Connects with the “Three Skills of Learning.” Hear it, See it and Do it.
Class Two at Wong’s Ji Do Kwan. More bows. Then watch as your child:

• Gains super confidence and builds rapport with a SUPER ROLE MODEL Black Belt instructor.
Believe me. In two short private lessons, your child will come away with their self-confidence greatly improved. Not just in how they feel. They’ll actually end up with real “Life Skills.” Skills that they can put to powerful use right now, today.

All while enjoying the fun and excitement of an upbeat martial arts program

To register for the free introductory program, please do one of two things right now:

1. Pick up the phone and call 1-510-333-4289.
We'll answer any additional questions that you may have and schedule a special time with our head instructor to work with you and your child.
OR

2. Register here - on-line and schedule a special time for your first free lesson.


Please act quickly because these classes fill up fast - and, we are committed to maintaining a small student-teacher ratio in our beginner’s classes. Whatever you do, I urge you to register today. Believe me,
“Martial art training is the best thing you can do for your child!.”

BUT BE WARNED. Remember, I’m inviting you to check out one of the most successful martial arts programs in the Bay Area! Call as soon as possible. Register Early and insure your spot. Don’t worry! It is consistently stressed to all students that Karate skills require them never to be abusive or offensive and are only for use defensively. After a short period of time students become markedly less aggressive while maintaining confidence and high personal self-esteem.

Thank you for your time and I hope to meet you at my school.

Sincerely,
Dr. Gary Wong,
5th Degree Black Belt
Master Instructor
Sensei_Gary@WongsJiDoKwan.com
P.S. All this talk of values may have mislead you. Be assured, I do teach karate as everyone likes to think of it. Your child will end up knowing how to protect themselves. They’ll know how to avoid danger, how to use conflict resolution techniques - but without once throwing a kick, block or punch!

P.P.S. Remember register on-line today and get almost $120 in value: Two free private classes, two free weeks and a parent-student meeting. Register now to insure a place in this program.

Finally, pick up the phone, call 510-333-4289 right now to schedule your private introductory time. Or. Register here on-line There is absolutely NO OBLIGATION or charge for this introductory program!. Obviously, I think you’ll find our program very valuable and interesting but - you have no risk and no obligation - and, NOTHING to lose and everything to gain by trying our program.
Copyright © 2003 Wong's Ji Do Kwan Date Last Updated: 07/10/2009